All three, harmony, discord and confidence, are required for growth. The keys are knowing when each is essential and how best to utilize them. Harmony Too many of us have an utopian view of harmony. In this view there’s love, … Continued
Alignment with others based on common goals, values, behaviors and characteristics does not mean that we’re intolerant. Indeed, personal, professional and societal growth demand that we align ourselves with those like us while remaining tolerant of opposing views and beliefs. … Continued
Who among us doesn’t want to be liked? It’s affirming to be liked. So it’s natural that it’s something we desire. But is it in our best interests? Background This question was triggered by a friend whose 16-year-old daughter has … Continued
Many of us believe that when we acknowledge others’ rights to their beliefs, and life choices, we are showing respect. I’d like to suggest that respect goes beyond tolerance to appreciation. Tolerance While tolerance lessens friction and minimizes the likelihood … Continued
I learned a lesson on creating lasting bonds quickly that I have to share with you. Background A high school teacher with whom I’ve had the pleasure of working said “You bond quickly with the kids.” I shared this observation … Continued