Is the divisiveness we’re experiencing throughout the world the result of fear or arrogance? The short answer is: it doesn’t matter, the focus is the same. Both are about control. Fear Fear is about the loss of control. Those who … Continued
If you’re someone who desires control, my heart goes out to you; control is an illusion. We cannot control anything other than our own behavior. That’s true whether we’re trying to control situations or others’ behavior. Situations We can’t control … Continued
Recent elections have indicated that the majority of voters are moderates which is why I got these questions: Why are moderates so quiet? Why do we hear so much from those on the extreme edges and so little from moderates? … Continued
The desire to control is evidence of a paucity of confidence…confidence in one’s ability to achieve what’s desired. Control is an illusion Confident people know that control is an illusion. They are readily aware that they can’t control: Other people’s … Continued
Some of the greatest frustration we experience in life comes from our desire to control. We want to control our destinies. At times, we desire to control others’ behaviors. In reality, the only control we have is over the choices … Continued