In a June 5th, 2019 NPR (National Public Radio) airing, Amber Scorah, the author of Leaving The Witness, said “You can never have change without loss.” A few minutes later a friend said that she had eliminated a number of … Continued
When we rage, and we’ve all done it at one time or another, we transfer power to the subject of our rage. I take no pride in acknowledging that I’ve raged against others, the lunacy of aspects of a new … Continued
For some time now I’ve used congruity and disparity to guide me in evaluating what others’ were telling me, little did I know that it was boosting my confidence as well. Previously My focus on congruency helps me identify whether … Continued
We tend to think of confidence as a benefit that serves us well but it’s much more, it’s a source of inspiration to others. When others see your confidence some will envy you, but more will feel empowered. Here’s why. … Continued
All too often I hear people regret the fact that they had not learned a lesson earlier in life. This sentiment is wrong for a number of reasons. Regret vs. joy People who regret not having learned a lesson earlier … Continued
Many people believe that the more self-aware a person is the more confident they are, that isn’t true. Aware, not confident I’ve met many people who demonstrate awareness of their strengths, their weaknesses and the challenges they face. Each candidly … Continued
People continue to amaze me as they tell me what they see in my smile. Recently someone I hadn’t seen in awhile said “You really believe in people don’t you?” I hesitated because I had not thought of myself in … Continued
There’s an old adage in football, when in doubt punt? While punting does give the ball to the other team, it does something more important, it buys the punting team time to think, to regroup and establish a new game … Continued
A number of people have told me that they have the ability to appear confident even when they don’t feel confident. Others ask “How can I appear confident when I’m not feeling confident?” Are these…being confident and appearing confident…really two … Continued
During this wonderful season of Thanksgiving, as I pondered all the amazing things for which I’m grateful, I wondered “Is the gratitude we feel influenced by the confidence we possess?” The short answer is “Yes.” Let’s examine the various levels … Continued