The vast majority of us are committed to enriching the lives of others, yet we overlook candor’s role in that service. Human nature Most people abhor confrontation. It feels awkward and uncomfortable to us. We fear that being candid could … Continued
My curiosity about the impact expectations have on results was triggered by Mary Kutheis’ Minute Shift message on realistic expectations for Thanksgiving dinner. Mary is a dear friend who does exceptional work in her role as executive coach and confidant. … Continued
During the NFL playoff game between the Houston Texans and Buffalo Bills, I witnessed JJ Watt, the Houston defensive end, engage all three, energy, the law of attraction and action to help his team come from behind to win the … Continued
For the vast majority of people confidence is counterintuitive…contrary to their human nature. Yes, each of us is confident in some aspects of our lives. We’re confident in areas in which we have natural ability or significant familiarity. But in … Continued
Is there a link between trust and judgement? If so, what is it and how can we use it to benefit both ourselves and those with whom we interact? Background These questions came to mind as a result of an … Continued
Is the desire for recognition more prevalent among women than men? Before I answer this question, let’s take a look at what precipitated the question. Background I was having dinner with a woman friend who expressed frustration at having her … Continued
The vast majority of us are well aware of the futility of New Year’s resolutions. Many of us have simply stopped making them, knowing that we’re not likely to honor these commitments for more than a few weeks. Forgoing new … Continued
Regardless of how well-intentioned we might have been, it’s likely that each of us has offered advice that wasn’t particularly helpful. This blog post was triggered by a conversation with a self-proclaimed overachiever. He said that his dad told him … Continued
Does regret influence confidence or confidence influence regret? Regret One of the natural tendencies we all possess by virtue of our humanity is regret. Each of us has, at one time or another, done or said something that we wish … Continued
Is confidence the reason why the most successful people I know are so good at anticipating what’s going to happen? While I doubt that there is a direct correlation, I firmly believe that confidence aids a person’s ability to anticipate … Continued