I’ve often commented that one of the things we humans struggle with is uncertainty. The fear and anxiety we experience can be, and often is, debilitating…especially with regard to health issues and consequential decisions. It’s the not knowing, the lack … Continued
On the surface this success tip seems obvious, yet how often do we frustrate ourselves trying to “train” people to do what we believe is in their best interest. Background My wife and I took advantage of a gorgeous day … Continued
There are times when I miss what someone said because I’ve been in my own little world. When that happens, I apologize and candidly admit where I’ve been; followed by: “And it’s a really happy place.” How often are you … Continued
Why is it that we find confident people attractive…almost magnetic? This question came to mind as I was watching a TV commercial for the umpteenth time. I don’t recall whose commercial it is, but in one segment a young woman … Continued
Neuroscientists studies show that your smile benefits you in multiple ways. Smiling releases chemicals into your system that lessen stress, lessen pain and serve as an antidepressant. All of that in addition to helping you feel happy. Your smile has … Continued
During programs on confidence I’m often asked “How do I know when i’ve crossed the line between confidence and arrogance? In the past I’ve answered “When you’re no longer open to other ideas.” I can now offer a more visual … Continued
Has the phrase “Happy to help” lost its meaning? It’s a phrase we often use when someone thanks us for the kindness we extended to them. Yet I believe that it has been used so often that it has lost … Continued
Our lives are filled with real heroes; we just aren’t accustomed to recognizing them as such. This idea struck when I saw a headline stating that a spacecraft was named for mathematician Katherine Johnson. For those who may not be … Continued
“Why?” is a great question…unless you’re wallowing in it. By wallowing I mean, you’re using “why” to avoid “how.” In his book, Playing Ball On Running Water (opens in a new link), David Reynolds said that one of the differences … Continued