My dear friend and sage web advisor, Kara Gamber, said “Sometimes reaching simplicity is a complex journey.”
I couldn’t agree more. Let’s explore the process to see why this happens…and how to use it to our advantage.
We tend to start any endeavor by making it more complicated than necessary. The reason we do this is that we want to make sure that we don’t overlook anything that is essential to our success.
Each new factor that we consider triggers other potential factors that could influence the outcome we achieve. Consequently, we find ourselves considering dozens of factors in devising a path to our destination.
As we layout our approach, we identify steps (factors) that make the make the achievement of our goal clunky and unwieldy. Our natural reaction is to look for something that will make life simpler and more enjoyable.
With each next step we not only simplify the current step under consideration, we learn things that can improve on earlier refinements.
Over time, we continue to evolve to simpler and simpler ways to accomplish what we desire. It’s this iterative process that helps us become more efficient and more productive than our early efforts. Ultimately, we latch onto a simple system that’s easily replicable and works so consistently we know, with absolute certainty, that it’ll work every time.
Human beings naturally abhor complexity. All too often that results in us giving up on whatever we hoped to accomplish. By understanding that complexity is the initial step toward simplicity and that simpler, more efficient ways of doing things surface as we continue our pursuit, we set ourselves up for greater success and more satisfying results.
The byproducts of giving up are a sense of loss, disappointment and inadequacy…not exactly the foundations of confidence.
When you feel inclined to walkaway from something you desire because of the complexity involved, remind yourself that complexity is the starting point on a journey to simplicity. You’ll enjoy greater success…and more of what you want in life.
For our kids
When you see a child feeling overwhelmed with complexity, share with them the fact that “Reaching simplicity is a complex journey.” Let them know that simplicity is the result of an iterative process in which the complex becomes simpler and simpler until it becomes efficient and effective.
Oh, by the way, live this message and your kids are more likely to employ it. They mimic the behaviors of the adults in their lives.
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