Does confidence enhance our ability to live in the moment? If so, what are the benefits of being confident enough to live in the moment? Low confidence You know from personal experience that when your confidence is lacking you’re more … Continued
Can we be confident even when we feel ignorant? The simple answer is “Yes!” Before we get into the rationale for this answer, let me share with you what triggered these thoughts. Trigger This blog post was triggered by a … Continued
Do men and women experience confidence differently? If so, how does it affect their lives? More importantly, can they increase their confidence to achieve a more fulfilling life? In my experience, there is indeed a difference between the way women … Continued
We’ve all been to the land of “Why me?” It’s not really a pleasant place. It’s a land where our most vivid memories are the things that didn’t go well for us…or so we felt. Yet, somehow, we stay there … Continued
Each of us has done something we later regretted. The question is “How long should we have to pay for our indiscretion?” Simple Answer The simple answer is that we should never judge a person (including yourself) or a situation … Continued
Who among us doesn’t want to be liked? It’s affirming to be liked. So it’s natural that it’s something we desire. But is it in our best interests? Background This question was triggered by a friend whose 16-year-old daughter has … Continued
Do confident people have more energy? What physics tells us Physicists offer insights in what they call the Law of Conservation of Energy. This law simply states that in a closed system the total amount of energy remains constant while … Continued
Does your level of confidence influence your ability to love? It’s often said that before you can love another, you must love yourself. While I believe that most of us agree with that statement, it begs the question “What does … Continued
When people, particularly those in large corporations, feel the need for authority it makes me wonder how confident they are. Authority My typical response when someone says they don’t have authority is to remind them that as a consultant/coach I … Continued
One would think that I’d encourage a New Year’s resolution to be more confident, but resolving to be more confident doesn’t make it so. As I was thinking about New Year’s resolutions and how often they fade before the month … Continued