When we cross the line from desire to obsession life becomes dangerous. The question is “How do we know when we’re about to cross the line?” Before we attempt to answer that question, allow me to share some background on … Continued
“…he found they often gave an accurate self-diagnosis [they already knew the answer]” This was part of a description of Dr. Vivek Murthy, Obama’s former surgeon general. Full Description “Murthy was ‘Mr. Bedside Manner,’ with a soothing voice. As a … Continued
“You can’t wait until life isn’t hard anymore before you decide to be happy.” Singer-song writer, Nightbirde, This from a woman who, suffering cancer, was in the last months of her life. She made this statement during her audition on … Continued
What is the source of an abundance mindset? Some argue that it’s a genetic predisposition: that some people are naturally inclined to abundance thinking while others are plagued with a scarcity mindset? While there is little doubt that there are … Continued
It never ceases to amaze me how often people confuse confidence and desire. Here’s a typical exchange with people who blame a lack of confidence for hesitating in the pursuit of a dream. “I don’t think I can do it.” … Continued
You have the right to choose the stress in your life. Before you run out to find a padded cell to protect me from myself, hear me out. Nature of stress There are two sources of stress: external and internal. … Continued
Some of the best advice about feeling inferior came from Eleanor Roosevelt when she said “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” On the surface her admonition seems to refer to others’ words and actions and their … Continued
Your desire to help others often results in your saying yes, only to discover how costly that yes is later. Here’s a personal experience to illustrate this point. Nearly costly yes We’ve used this travel agent for two Alaska trips, … Continued
When you’re looking for information, are you seeking affirmation or education? The sources for each are very different. Affirmation sources If you’re seeking affirmation, you’re looking for sources that share your beliefs and values. You may end up feeling better … Continued
A rarity in today’s world: integrity, admission of a mistake and acceptance of consequences. In a refreshing example of seemingly long, lost values, the Joe Gibbs Racing Team admitted that they had failed to get approval for a minor change … Continued